10 Reasons Why Some People Don't Succeed In Life

I'm someone who believes that you either win or you learn. I do not like to use the word failure; but for a better understanding of this post, I'll be doing that. 

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I know we often say life is unfair which is true; but sometimes we are the architect of our problems because of how we use our time, our mindsets, and our beliefs! Many people have so many definitions of success, and it's not always monetary; but failure's definition is more like a one size fits all clothing - which is the inability to succeed at something. 

Well here are ten reasons I think most people don't succeed :

1. Short term gratification 

Some people believe that short term gratification is more appealing than not having a social life for some time. I mean It’s okay to go out, and have fun but if you have limited money, I don’t think it’s wise to spend it all on balling. 

2. They hear a “no,” and they quit. 

Apply a little pressure! Most people just get lost, give up, and then live with regret for the rest of their life. In my opinion, failure is better than a constant feeling of regret.

3. Not being realistic enough. 

Sometimes you set goals that may take some time to achieve, and you expect to achieve them under two days! 

4. Not having clear goals. 

I am not a fan of to-do lists, but calendar planning works. Also, try to write down a “what I did today” list at the end of the day. If you didn’t do anything, that guilt feeling will kick in, and hopefully you will improve yourself tomorrow. 

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5. Comparing yourself too much to others.

This is just a recipe for failure. Sometimes you may be looking at someone’s results from 10 years of hard work, and comparing it to your beginning. It is not the same day you plant the seed that you reap the harvest!

6. Not having gratitude.

Did you know that being grateful for how far you’ve come or counting your blessings will help you to have a more positive approach to life? Having the ability to be happy with what you have is way better than always wanting more — especially in a faster way.

7. They Don't Value Their Time

You can't always be everywhere, anywhere, and anytime because if you are, then what time do you have to dedicate towards the actualization of your goals? You make plans toward your goals, then you procrastinate, but still have time for lesser priorities; and before you know it, days, weeks, months, and years have gone by without you making much efforts towards having your dream life. 

8. They Make Excuses And Have Self-imposed Limitations

Ever heard of the phrase," if it is important to you, you'll find a way. If it's not, you'll find an excuse?"

Some people are actually good at making excuses as to why they can't do something, and then mistake it as being realistic. It is okay to acknowledge your weak points, but do you put that energy into acknowledging your strengths too, or you just accept that you're not good enough, and then give up?

9. Inability To Adapt To Change

Listen, sometimes things won't always go like you planned, and that's life! Understanding this will help you get through tough challenges. Learn to adapt first, then continue planning!

10. Lack Of Focus 

Some people have so many ideas but can't seem to focus on one, work on it, and make it a success! Their mind is on different things they want to do. Arrange your ideas in order of priorities, and realism. 

Thank you for reading, guys. Xo, Moxie!

Have you read my last post? 13 Things To Keep In Mind If You Always Want To Be Happy

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