How To Know If An Introvert Is In Love With You

You ever met an introvert you liked? Dated one? Married one? Friends with one? It looks, or looked like they’re tough or a hard nut to crack, right?

Sometimes it might even seem like your introvert partner isn’t all that interested in you. However, this is far from the truth. It is not easy for introverts to fall in love, and it’s even more difficult for them to show that they care about you. They are not the most expressive humans; but when they like you or love you, they’ll try!

Introverts tread cautiously when it comes to letting people into their lives, especially when it comes to giving their hearts away. But once they are sure of their feelings and the person, they can surprise you by being extremely affectionate and romantic!

First, let’s look at the definition of an introvert: An introvert is someone who prefers to be alone, or spend time with one or two people rather than a large crowd.

Introverts tend to enjoy thinking about, and examining things in their own minds. Self-awareness and self-understanding is important to them - hence they often devote a great deal of time to learning more about themselves.

So if you’re more concerned about your inner thoughts than what’s happening externally, if you don’t ever want to belong nor feel the need to belong in a crowd - nor be the center of attention, then you’re introverted. 

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Dealing with an introvert can leave you confused on whether they actually love you or not.. innit? *chuckles*

They may look self-absorbed; but in reality, these people love harder than anyone else. I'm an introvert, and I can tell you for a fact that introverts aren’t easy to understand. The hardest thing about knowing an introvert, is having to figure them out. While you may not always succeed in that, there are few ways you can know if an introvert loves you or likes you, and below are the basics:

1. You’re their go-to person

Introverts only share things about their personal lives with people who are important to them. They believe in confiding only in those people with whom they want a deeper bond.

If you’re the first person they call or text when something happens, forget it! You already have a special place in their heart. Introverts do not have much people they tell everything. They don’t call different people to tell them what they’ve experienced, nor seek their opinion on issues. If they’re always doing that with you, be rest assured that you’re special to them, and they’re really into you!

2. They will do “Extroverted” things with you

One thing about me, is that I’ll always choose being in my house — reading, writing, or watching a movie, over going out - any day, any time! If an introvert is making efforts to go out with you — be it to the movies, dinner, or a visit to family, then they really like you. Typically, these set of humans aren’t outgoing, but if they do like you, they would definitely step out of their natural habitat for you! They’ll be lively around you.

3. They let you in

One thing about introverts, is they have high walls. Because they don’t care about noise and attention, they don’t also care about having much people in their life. They find strength in solitude which means they’re never bored of themselves because there’s always something creative to do! But, if an introvert is sharing their daily life with you, their favorite things, their accomplishments, good memories, and bad memories, then you already have a place in their heart!

4. When in a relationship with them, romance never ends

While some people are used to being married, and having their honey moon for a short period of time, introverts who generally romanticize their lives — only get more so as time goes on. It’s never ending with them!

In the initial stages of a relationship, introverts and physical affection might not go hand in hand. But when they start developing deep feelings for you, they can’t help but show you their romantic side. Introverts express their affection in profound ways and are found to be greater romantics than extroverts because their love involves a greater intensity. Once they ascertain you to be the one, they will be the most romantic person you’ve ever met.

When an introvert is in love with you, or loves something about you, be rest assured that they’ll never get tired of talking about that. These people are secretly romantics, and unfortunately they believe in fairy tale - happily ever after type of relationships, and that is what you’ll get from them!

5. They’re vulnerable with you

Introverts live a private, and a quiet life, and because their guards are always up, they’re often very conscious of things they share; but when they're in love, they’ll be vulnerable enough to let you know what they’re thinking, and they’ll show you their flaws without fear of being judged. 

Ps, introverts are most often judged more than extroverts.

6. They want to spend quality time with you

In as much I said they’ll do “extroverted” things with you, left to them, they’ll prefer to stay in bed with you, and watch their favorite movie, or yours. This is because they prefer having the person they love all to themselves. They are all about wanting to know the ‘real you’.

In as much as they want their space, and prefer to be alone, they’ll want you around. They’ll want to know you better.

Introverts are best and most comfortable showing their love when they are alone with you in a personal space, and this is when their most romantic side makes an appearance. Needless to say, Netflix and chill is a favorite date night activity for introverts!

7. They will talk to you on the phone

If you know introverts well, you’ll know that one thing they hat€ the most, is phone calls! I can’t tell you how much I dislike talking on the phone. 

They will avoid answering the phone as far as possible. They’d rather text. They are expert texters, but phone calls take them way out of their comfort zone.

If your introvert partner makes the effort to talk to you over the phone, you’d better believe you’re special! Answering your call is a definite sign that an introvert loves you, and has strong feelings for you. If they happen to call you back after missing a call, they have fallen quite hard! And if they actually call you on their own, your introvert partner misses you, and is clearly showing you how important you are.


So guys, here are few ways to know if an introvert loves you! I hope you enjoyed reading.. xx

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